Helping Children Cope with Pet Loss

Losing a pet is hard for anyone, but for children, it may be their first experience with death. They often process grief differently, and it’s important to offer guidance with gentleness and honesty.

Be Honest, But Age-Appropriate

Use clear, simple words. Avoid confusing phrases like "put to sleep," and instead explain that their pet has died and won’t be coming back — but that it’s okay to feel sad.

Invite Their Emotions Let them know that all feelings are okay. Encourage them to draw, talk, or cry if they need to. Avoid rushing their healing process.

Create a Goodbye Ritual Together

Let your child light a candle, pick a photo, or say a few words. These rituals give kids something concrete to hold onto as they process loss.

Use Books & Storytelling

Children's books about pet loss can help validate feelings and start meaningful conversations. They may also help children relate to characters going through something similar.

Keep the Connection Alive

Talk often about the happy times. You might look through photos together or create a small tribute space in their room.

Helping a child through pet loss can strengthen their emotional intelligence and trust in you. With love and space to grieve, they’ll carry those memories in a healthy way.

Let your child honor their pet in their own way. Submit a Pet Tribute Together